I had planned on posting about it, but I forgot about it until now...
So let's go back to prehistoric times, when dinosaurs ruled the world...uh...not that far. How about 1987. My dad worked at a hospital. He was a paramedic. You know, in movies, someone gets hurt and they go in an ambulance. And there are the people/"doctors" there. That's what my dad did. Then he ended up being the engineer (not the train kind). He was in charge of a bunch of people. And we had some pretty sweet hours. He was paid yearly instead of hourly. So he got to leave whenever. So he went on field trips and stuff with my sister and me.
Then in October 2007 he got a new boss. This guy is an idiot/jerk/other impolite names. He wanted to do some stuff that wasn't exactly legal. He wanted my dad to sign something saying that he had checked some safety stuff. But he hadn't done it, so my dad wouldn't sign the paper. That was a Friday. The following Monday, his boss came in to his office. He told my dad that he isn't a "right fit" anymore. My dad quit. After almost 20 years (a few months short).
Then my dad was unemployed for about a month. Then he got a job at Job Corps (like high school. you can get GEDs there). He worked there about a year. He liked working there, but he made a lot less money. Which really sucked. 'Cause we had to spend a lot on swim team.
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(I made a chart for it. And that's just me. double for my sister.) *disclaimer* that's for everything we did. not just one year |
Oregon
+near the ocean. I've never been to the ocean.
-halfway across the country
Texas
+I have a guy friend in Texas. Who I don't get to see often.
+there is an OAFC group there. Mine has died :(
-halfway across the country, but at least the same time zone
-aren't there hurricanes there?
Minnesota
+my dad's brother lives there. In the town the job was in.
+there is an OAFC group there
-uh, there weren't really many negatives...but it's still a move...
My dad ended up picking Minnesota. He's been living with his brother since December 2008. Six hour commute every weekend for almost two years.
We've been trying to get moved up there for the whole time. Our house wont sell though. :( So we've been stuck like this for quite awhile...
Now I don't know if I want to still move. I want my family to get back together. And I'll probably be going to Minnesota for college, and state residents get cheaper tuition. But, this is my senior year. I have been going to the same school for my entire life. I don't know if I want to go to a new school for my last year of high school...
So this turned out longer than expected...and I even left out a part I wanted to add. It will be in my next post.
And now you have seen a little intimate piece of my life that I have never told anyone about. (at least not the whole story) You should feel special.
Hoping it turns out for the best,
Amarantha93
Random Note: I love the Newsboys. :)
I'm sorry Ama :(
ReplyDeleteFor your sake, I kinda hope that you get to stay at this high school so that you don't have to transfer and so that you can graduate with all of your friends at that school instead of trying to make new ones in Minnesota.
If you end up moving sooner, at least you'll get to see your dad more- sorry but that's the only good thing that I can think of for you
@bruce
ReplyDeleteI do kinda hope that we dont move, 'cause if I go to a high school reunion, I want to see people I actually know.
but I wanna see my dad more. and college will be cheaper if we move.
Oh wow, that's quite a decision...Minnesota is the closest to Iowa, of course, but I heard it gets really cold there too in the winter? I suppose for the college stuff, it'll just really boil down to how much the money issues matter...I had a really close friend who picked this random college in Alabama just because they gave her a really good scholarship. We live in California, btw, where very few people go to Alabama for school.
ReplyDeleteAnd hey, since it's September now, shouldn't school have started/be starting? I'm sure you picked a high school by now, huh? :) :) :)
@skys my dad has been in minnesota for 2 winters. both of them were colder and/or had more snow in Iowa
ReplyDeleteand the whole money issue. I'll probably be in college for at least 6 years. so it'll be expensive. so every bit helps. and since we're moving, we're gonna spend all of our money on a new house...right before I go to college.
I started school August 17th. but we could still move. and school doesnt start in minnesota until September 7th.
ah, i see. i suppose that IS a tough choice then. good luck, however it goes!
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